Preparing for Your Session

Create space for connection and healing.

A clear mind and an open heart always make it easier to receive. Whether speaking with a spirit guide or a spirit, be open energetically and emotionally to what comes. To get the most out of your session, there are a few things you can do to prepare.

Before your session:

  • Stay open and curious.
  • Make a list of questions you’d like to ask your guide or loved one.
  • Remember that your guide’s highest purpose is your healing. They tend to stay focused on your growth.

Spirits enter sessions with love, peace, and clarity. Guides and spirits alike have all mentioned how they can see clearly, and we cannot. When you’re ready, I’d be honored to help you find clarity. Every session is a step towards more profound healing, greater understanding, and a sense of peace.


Do I need to do anything special before we start?

Your spirit guide doesn’t require any ritual before beginning the session.

If you want to, you can:

  • write down any questions you want to ask
  • sit somewhere quiet and comfortable
  • be ready to take notes

An open mind helps more than anything else could.

What if I’m nervous or emotional before we start?

That’s completely normal. You don’t need to push it away or be calm before the visit.

Come as you are. Your spirit guide will meet you there.

What kinds of questions can I ask?

You can ask about anything. Clients have asked everything from “What should I wear today?” to “What’s the meaning of life?”

Your guide will do their best to answer any questions you bring.

However, your guide is also focused on helping you live your best life. Asking high-level questions will get your guide talking more than any other subject.

High-level topics include:

  • patterns you can’t seem to change
  • relationships
  • grief
  • direction or purpose
  • intuition
  • ideas

Your guide wants to give you clarity so you can make choices from a more grounded place.

How do I pay you?

I collect payment after the session is complete.

I will send a payment collection link after the session that gives options for payment.

You can click here to view that link and prepay if you prefer.

Can my guide tell me exactly what’s coming in the future?

Sort of. Guides don’t discuss the future in fixed, concrete terms.

Guides offer:

  • likely outcomes based on choices
  • emotional patterns that shape outcomes
  • what will support healing and change outcomes

They will show you what happens if nothing changes, but changes are a natural part of life, especially once you know what could be coming.

“You are in the seat of power in your life. What comes is determined by you more than any other force in the universe.”

– Harold, my guide

Will my loved ones come through during a spirit guide session?

Spirit guides lead the session. Occasionally, loved ones have stepped forward, but it’s not common. It’s not something I actively invite during a spirit guide session.

To try to speak with your loved ones directly, please book a Medium Session.

Can I record my session?

Of course! A lot of clients feel more comfortable just talking and listening to the recording again later.

Please keep any session recordings for personal use only.

What happens after the session?

Each session is unique. However, a lot of strong emotions and deep insights can come from spirit guide sessions.

If this happens to you, take it slow. Let everything settle and process. Don’t try to do too much too quickly.

Many clients find it helpful to have a little space after the session to really settle before going back to their day.

Can my guide answer health, legal, or psychological questions?

Your guide will do their best to answer any questions. However, spiritual guidance is not a replacement for professional advice.

Please also seek a licensed health, legal, or psychological professional as needed for your circumstances.